I figure the Obama girls are going to be a huge focal point in the months ahead (gawd help those darlings) and self-ascribed tween “experts” will be crawling out of the media morass elbowing each other for air time and talk show gigs, so why not check in on the conversations transpiring on tween-talk hubs themselves?
Since my tween has just turned teen, and Twilight’s $70.6 million opening weekend points to sequel city (a great big “told you so” goes to Hollywood: girls crave innuendo over carnal knowledge) I decided I’d better look BEYOND our usual tween advisory board and allied orgs (like New Moon Girl Media, Reign of the Girl Child, etc.) to hear what’s going on in forums/blogs much bigger than ours ‘en masse.’ So today, we’re hearing from Denise Restauri, CEO and Founder of AllyKatzz, and ‘eavesdropping’ on the intimate chatter taking place there.
At 2.5million pageviews per month, be aware AllyKatzz is a research lab, (complete with street team) as well as a conversational marketing community and commercial site, which makes it ripe for analysis of “the secrets being told, and items being sold” to get a handle on what’s happening before it walks through our front door or lands in our laps…That said, it’s also a very sincere, time-capsule of what’s on the minds of the 70,000 girls in this COPPA compliant, moderated hub which draws in about 5,000 new entries every day…Raw and real, typos-n-textspeak, jargon and all!
It’s got “pink think” out the wazoo and girl guitar aspirations up the gumpstump, (yes, I really DID just use those words!) with tweenage brands targeting the 12-13 year old girls that are the most prevalent voices on the site, which spans from ages 10-15.
Denise Restauri herself is directly tapped into their online community daily…not just listening, but engaging as part of the conversation to hear what’s going on inside girls’ worlds and giving girls a platform to be heard. (e.g. seeding conversations (e.g. asking the girls to ‘shout out’ their favorite Washington D.C. spots to welcome Malia and Sasha Obama asking girls to think about ‘tweens in the house,’ (The White House) etc. So without further ado, here’s Denise, who oversees AllyKatzz ‘all things girl’ site to give us a candid snapshot of what a REAL ‘tween expert’ looks like:
Shaping Youth: Why do girls come to AllyKatzz, what do they primarily DO there, and have you seen any huge CHANGE in girls lately in keeping with the theme of ‘change’ universally in our culture right now? (politically, economically, anxiety, positivity, etc.)
AllyKatzz: Our tween girls are really those in between two major events in their lives, puberty and getting a driver’s license. They come online to talk about everything that’s going on in their world.
Girls create their own pages and profiles, send messages and virtual gifts, blab about their lives, write songs, upload pictures, report news, listen to music, rate movies and throw online blog parties. They like to be ‘first to know’ about what’s happening and spread the word online and offline. People, places, things…And they come online to make friends with girls from around the world, see the world through the eyes of other girls in other places, and to talk about what’s bothering them.
As far as the changes…These girls definitely dream, and dream big- just like the millions of Americans who voted for CHANGE in this election – tween girls want to change their lives and their worlds.
We have thousands of blogs about how they want to make the world a better place for people and animals. We know how concerned they are about global warming. And we know that they don’t really understand what Wall Street means, but we know how it’s impacting them (i.e., they’re going to the library vs. buying books).
Shaping Youth: So what IS bothering tweens? I’ve read a lot about the Ypulse research on online anonymity trumping hotlines and sites becoming ‘confessionals’ of sorts, with secrets and stresses shared among peers…How do you moderate all that?
How do you handle the load and isn’t it dicey on the responsibility front when it’s out of your core range of skill sets?
AllyKatzz: Yes, tween girls are struggling in their tweenage years. On AllyKatzz, they share their confessions, fears, desires, needs, disloyalties, heartbreaks and embarrassing moments. They talk about boys, best friends, mean girls, parents, sex, cutting, drinking, smoking and drugs. They expose what’s really going on in the hearts and heads of girls…
And they share with us because our relationships with them are different than other blogging/social networking sites. We have relationships and 2-way dialogues with the girls built on trust (COPPA compliant of course!).
They have asked me to take their thoughts and concerns to other adults/companies who need to know what they’re saying. Tween girls can’t vote but they have voices and they want to be heard. What they think and say is important! AllyKatzz gives them that platform…
As for the moderation, we hire college students to review every word and picture before posting so that it’s a safe place where ‘mean girls’ are not allowed and older girls help younger girls stay safe on the web.
Conversations are “appropriate” but we let them talk about what’s bothering them as long as they don’t get inappropriately graphic. (For example, we let them blog about “wondering about their sexuality”… but since we are 100% monitored, we won’t post comments from mean girls queries things like, “You are a lesbo?”)
Most challenging moderation issues?
Since we do NOT collect email addresses, we do not have any way of reaching a girl who says she wants to hurt herself. But “Ally’s Gang” (the college students/female adults who review every word/photo before posting) will send her a shout out with info about the help hot lines we post on the site for suicide, crisis, cutting, domestic violence, etc.
That’s what we do for all issues that are beyond our expertise… give the girls ways to seek help — from “tell an adult” to giving the phone numbers of the toll-free 24/7 help lines.
I’m actually writing a book about the whole ‘secret lives of tweens’ but can’t talk about it too much yet.
Shaping Youth: Hmn…So has the Twilight fanfest hit tweens or is this more of a teen thing?
Seems to me it will veer into aspirational buzz regardless, especially with older siblings and the viral word of mouth/media blitz…and from what I’m hearing on Facebook (and our advisers) girls either ‘love it or hate it’ depending on their level of critical thinking skills. I haven’t seen it or read it yet…but my own daughter has the poster from the book on her wall already. (she still favors ‘The Notebook’ but you can see where her head is)
AllyKatzz: If you look at AllyKatzz TAGS on the homepage, girls self-assign any of these tags to their blogs…so you’ll see what categories they blog about most.
It can change quickly…vampires wasn’t even a tag 9 months to a year ago…and High School Musical was big.
The girls are definitely talking about Twilight…have been for a while—From loving the books, to questioning the messages it gives girls, lusting after Edward (character and actor!) to mixed reviews about the movie, and also how it’s a mother/daughter thing. (e.g. when moms love the book)
Shaping Youth: Other trendcasting on the horizon? Texting still huge? Typos and all?
AllyKatzz: We are seeing less and less “textoreze” from the tweens. Seeing more complete sentences. Spelling is still horrible, not that they don’t know how to spell, but they don’t think it’s important when they’re posting their blogs or communicating with other girls. Also, they’re making up their own words more and more…just for them and for their friends – kind of like a fun, secret language that is just taking off…Words like “deets” for details are so yesterday. Even lots of the lylas are falling off the blogs. If you add “icle, ness, ful” to any word it is now in my dictionary. (e.g. smarticle, etc.)
Shaping Youth: How do you define a ‘tween expert’? What makes YOU one? Tell me more…
When I asked Denise about this topic, feeling the need for both ‘qualitative and quantitative’ analysis beyond my reach, she was kind enough to give me her take on the topic which frankly, foreshadows what many of us feel will no doubt be coming down the pike…
So I’m turning over the rest of the day’s entry to Denise’s response in the form of a guest editorial!
It IS ‘A Perfect Storm’ in terms of the media and marketing mashup and the tween targeting of kids so who better than a marketing/research pro to tell us in her own words what to watch for, from the inside out:
* Tween Girls = control billions of dollars: Cannot vote for the President, but they can make a celeb a billion dollar industry
* Obama Girls = makes the tween girl market even hotter right now
* The current economy… goes back to tween girls controlling billions of dollars
It’s the perfect storm to take advantage of tween girls vs. shining the spotlight on them:
1. Self Proclaimed (or in the following example PR proclaimed) tween experts are popping up/will start popping up everywhere… coming out of the woodwork. Below is one example – clipped from an email I received from a PR firm – FAO Schwarz has a Tween Expert that is focused on self-esteem. I tried calling FAO, looking for this tween expert… seems they can’t find him/her. Best I can tell, the way to reach the tween expert is through the PR firm. Hmmmmm???
I am not opposed to any of the items that FAO is selling (I’m not saying they would be my top tween picks)… it’s the way the PR firm is positioning it. Why? Because “tween self esteem” is now the hot button. Marketers/PR firms taking advantage of something that is serious and turning it into something that can be fixed with a purse, game or craft is just plain “low.”
If FAO Schwarz is lowering themselves to this, who else is doing it? And how many more will follow? What credentials/experience does this “tween expert” have? And please, please, PLEASE do not tell me she has a tween daughter! That is a focus group of one…that you raised… dangerous.
I am not opposed to marketing to tweens…they want to know what’s out there… and they want to make decisions. Ads don’t make them buy products. They are very savvy… they know what they like and what they don’t. But they need to be informed… and even better… to be a part of the process of creating the products they want and need. It’s all about HOW it’s done.
2. I agree that tween self esteem is very important. Low self-esteem leads to dating and domestic violence, eating disorders, depressions, cutting, self-medicating, drinking… and the list goes on and on. So someone tell me how these products below are really going to help girls with their self esteem?
3. What makes me a tween expert? I have read thousands of blogs posted by tween girls (we have over 4M archived posts and 5K new every day)…I have been called the “Faith Popcorn for tween girls.” My deep and expansive knowledge and understanding of what makes tween girls tick has helped everyone from start-up entrepreneurs to thousands of parents around the globe who seek a more meaningful connection to their tween daughters.
I am a part of their world every day. I know what’s in their heads, hearts, backpacks, under their beds, on their play lists and in their trash. That goes back to our relationship with the girls built on trust:
We are transparent with the girls… we tell them that a company wants to know what they are thinking… and when you’re honest, you get honest feedback…and the girls love it because someone is asking for their opinion… they have a platform for their voices to be heard.
4. With the Obama girls in the White House, I am predicting that the “self proclaimed” and worse, the “PR proclaimed” tween experts will start coming out of the woodwork. Sad.
5. How we will shine the spotlight on tween girls at AllyKatzz? By making tween girls feel even more important because soon there will be “tweens in the house.” We are asking the AK girls to tell the President what’s really going on in their world… but doing it in a fun way vs. a homework way…
We are putting up a section on the site with a White House Wall for the AK girls to write on… a place to talk about Wall Street, Main Street… or any street that impacts their worlds.
We are asking the AK girls to tell the Obama girls about fun things to do in DC. We are not selling this information… we are doing it to empower tween girls from around the world… They may not be in the White House themselves, but they have “friends” there now… and a President and First Lady who need to know what’s going on in the tween girl world – there are millions in this country, and two in the White House.
–Denise Restauri, Founder/CEO of AllyKatzz
Often quoted tween-young teen expert, Denise has been featured on ABC, NPR, More Magazine, E!Online, USA TODAY and People Magazine. Prior to AllyKatzz, Denise was VP of Sales at USA TODAY
Amy’s Note: Below is the FAO Schwartz PR Copy/Pitch that Denise mentions in her article
I’ve added visual links so you can get a feel for these ‘tween self esteem’ items. Ahem, as a branding CD/copywriter, I must say, she’s right, this is indeed a ‘reach.’
I found the opening paragraph particularly bleak…“promote the right values?” Excuse me? fashion design as the career choice? A $450 pricetag for the freakin’ ‘custom kit’ just to learn to use your imagination?
And ‘”good for this age group of insecurity?” (ugh, if I were a tween reader of All Things Girl week here on Shaping Youth, I’d fire up my poison pen and scrawl a few lines pronto, hint, hint…) Sheesh, talk about patronizing/condescending tonality trying to hawk purses and product under the guise of empowerment. Bleh. Tacky FAO. Veeeery tacky. –Amy
“Story Idea: Products that Promote Self-Esteem to the TWEEN GIRL MARKET by FAO Schwarz Tween Expert”
“The age group of 9-12 for young girls is a tough one filled with self-esteem issues, jealousy and competition. I would like to offer you an interview with a shopping expert who can suggest gifts for girls that can help promote the right values–some of them subconsciously, which is good for this age group of insecurity.”
“Rebelle by Daisy Cook Rebelle is the only handbag collection available exclusively to the tween market. The detachable handbags come with a zipper down the middle so you can share them with a friend, thus teaching girls to share and the value of friendship. You can also join the Rebelle Friendship Club and become pen pals with girls from across the world.
Custom Handbag Fashion Design Kit by Imagine This With this special design opportunity, you will first receive your Designer’s Portfolio, which has everything you need to design your very own handbag, including templates and fabric swatches. Once you’ve completed your design, you submit it to the talented designers at Imagine This, who will turn your design into an actual handbag.
Project Runway Fashion and Figure Drawing Set
Jump-start your passion to become a fashion designer with this drawing set. Kit comes with 12-inch wooden mannequin model, pencils, sketchbook, and more. Sketch your inspired design ideas to create a complete fashion portfolio!
Silk Scarf Painting by ALEX
Create a brilliant rainbow of freely flowing vibrant colors on pure, shimmery 100% silk. Comes with one 45″ long scarf and one 28″ bandana. Decorating supplies include 3 real bamboo brushes, mixing palette, eye dropper, rubber gloves, chunky salt, and easy step-by-step instructions.”
Just Kid Inc. just released their study on Kids As a Force for Positive Social Change with 9 out of 10 finding importance in giving back to their community or helping others.
Now if marketers don’t exploit the crud out of this with brandwashing good causes to hawk stuff, then nonprofits could actually team with corporate social responsibility alliances vs. dwindling foundation dollars to create benign ‘feel good’ branding that’s a win-win!
As Denise said above, ‘all depends on how it’s done.’
There’s been pinkwashing extraordinaire with breast cancer—(See this excellent set of guidelines to Think Before You Pink’ via Breast Cancer Action of S.F.)
There’s greenwashing, brandwashing, and now we’re ripe for Tweenwashing and causewashing on the marcom front…
So caveat emptor all. Pay attention to who’s funding what, the percentage received by the charity, and whether or not the linkage seems like a logical, organic offshoot in keeping with both brands’ ideologies, or if it feels like a “forced fit.”(in The Age of Conversation 2, not a penny was taken by ANY author, it ALL went to Variety, the Children’s Charity, so I can honestly say the marketers I’m teaming with pass the sincerity test)
By Thanksgiving we’ll finally wrap up ‘All Things Girl’ and get back to our regular topics…(but want to remind all that we’re seeking BOYS sites and discussion on ‘Packaging Boyhood’ too, so send thoughts our way)!
With the holidays coming, we’ll also be looking at kids’ consumption cues, debt and downturn redux, financial literacy sites for kids, ‘re-gifting’ using online classifieds and safety tips via Oodle, positive picks like buythechange.com in beta, Giving Tree/give card to ‘pay it forward’ and other ways of instilling philanthropy, simplifying, and family time, naturally with kids…stay tuned!